| Location | Eston Middlesbrough |
| Age | 50 years |
| Date of Birth | 22/04/1956 |
| Date of Death | 26/02/2007 |
| Visitors | 557 since 11/01/2009 |
| Creator |
mam,we've lost a special person,all children wish to keep,but the way we now think of you,is lying peacefully asleep.Sorry we never had the chance to say goodbye,within our thoughts and dreams we cry,deep down we no its truly real,and yet we feel so numb,we never had the chance to say.Thanks for being our mam love u always from and forever your loving kids shell,danny,micheal.xxxxxxxxx HEART BROKEN
Mam
Angel wings you wear
The day you left broke our hearts
and the tears fell like rain,
but knowing that you now have wings
helps to ease the pain.
♥ღ♥
We know now when the snow falls
it is Angel dust from you
and when we see a shooting star
our Angel just passed through.
♥ღ♥
The rain drops do not make us sad
for they are not tears,
but sprinkles of love falling down,
our Angel again is near.
♥ღ♥
The winter cold has even changed,
Jack Frost no longer exists,
it's now a visit from our Angel
and he's left a special gift.
♥ღ♥
You also visit in the night,
your wings flutter with grace,
we know now when we awaken
that an Angel has kissed our face.
♥ღ♥
When the days are warm and bright
and the sun shines from above,
we feel the warmth wrap around us,
you've given an Angel hug.
♥ღ♥
You are with us at all times,
every day and night,
you try to end the pain we have
and the tears that we still cry.
♥ღ♥
Though Heaven is your home now
and Angel wings you wear,
you stay close to those you love,
until they join you there.
♥ღ♥
FLY HIGH ANGEL FLY
My Mammy
You never said "I'm leaving"
You never said goodbye
You were gone before I knew it,
And only God knew why
A million times I needed you,
A million times I cried
If Love alone could have saved you,
You never would have died
In Life I loved you dearly
In death I love you still
In my heart you hold a place,
That no one could ever fill
It broke my heart to lose you,
But you didn't go alone
For part of me went with you,
The day God took you home.
Love Always Mikey and Wayne
xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx
miss u loads
hi mam hope everything ok up there carnt beleive it coming 2 years in a few weeks im going to ur grave to lay some flowers for u off me and kids and i will lay some off gav coz i no he missing u to well take care say hi to nanna&grandad for me xxxxxxxxxx miss u loads love u loads 2 bye xxxx love shell and kids
hi mam just thought i would write a few words well i hope u ok up there i no i ask nearly every day but i carnt hear u,i just wish i could of done more for u help u so u werent taken away from us i feel it all my fault coz i was the only one who lived closest to u wen danny was in the army, and micheal was at hartlepool in college i think,i dont really see much of danny now i think ive seen him twice mybe 3 times u past away and micheal we stay in contact we got closer after u,and joe is stays in touch kids love him like a grandad,and as for ronnie and neil i dont see nothing of them ive see then wen danny's been up there but apart from that i stay away it not the same even the jugs quite wen i go i just look in that corner for u and ur not there. well hope u ok keep watching over us if u are mam, love u loads take care sweet dreams love u all the world xxx shell& kidsxxx
hi nanna it ur gorgous babies james and abbie hope u ok up there nanna we talk about u all the time to mam and she gets so sad over u not being here no more but she no's ur well now and not in pain no more well me going now coz we have to go to bed so gd nite nanna take care love u loads from ur babies james and abbie xxx ps keep looking over our mam plz she not the same person no more love u loads gd nite god bless sweet dreams xxxx
Missing You!
I can just lay there watching something on the TV and then suddenly your there, next to me or in my dreams im not quite sure. Nothing has got any better and its coming up to 2 years and still, it dont feel right. There are good days but i have the bad ones to. I still cry, and i look at your photo next to my TV day and night and i know your watching down on me, looking after our James and Abbie and the rest of us! Nothing really has changed around here, except you not being here to see. But give my Nanna Phyllis big Kisses and Cuddles and tell her to come see me to! Love ya all the world
Mikey xxxx
hi val it gav hope u ok ur the best mother in law and grand mother, i miss u loads and our little chats we had and i will never forget u and i will always keep my promise i promise,well take care miss u loads xxxxxxx from gav xxxxxxx
hello mam hope u ok up there the kids hello and they miss u loads well i will come bk soon take care love shell and kids xxxxxxxxx
Please See Me Through My Tears
by Kelly Osmont
You asked, "How am I doing?"
As I told you, tears came to my eyes...
and you looked away and quickly began to talk again.
All the attention you had given me drained away.
"How am I doing?"...I do better when people listen,
though I may shed a tear or two.
This pain is indescribable.
If you've never known it you cannot fully understand.
Yet I need you.
When you look away,
When I'm ignored,
I am again alone with it
Your attention means more than you can ever know.
Really, tears are not a bad sign, you know!
They're nature's way of helping me to heal...
They relieve some of the stress of sadness.
I know you fear that asking how I'm doing brings me sadness
...but you're wrong.
The memory of my loved one's death will always be with me,
Only a thought away.
My tears make my pain more visible to you, but you did not
give me the pain...it was already there.
When I cry, could it be that you feel helpless, not knowing
what to do?
You are not helpless,
And you don't need to do a thing but be there.
When I feel your permission to allow my tears to flow,
you've helped me
You need not speak. Your silence as I cry is all I need.
Be patient...do not fear.
Listening with your heart to "how I am doing"
relieves the pain,
for when the tears can freely come and go, I feel lighter.
Talking to you releases what I've been wanting to say aloud,
clearing space
for a touch of joy in my life.
I'll cry for a minute or two...
and then I'll wipe my eyes,
and sometimes you'll even find I'm laughing later.
When I hold back the tears, my throat grows tight,
my chest aches, my stomach knots...
because I'm trying to protect you from my tears.
Then we both hurt...me, because my pain is held inside,
a shield against our closeness...and you,
because suddenly we're distant.
So please, take my hand and see me through my tears...
then we can be close again
For you my children
Time has taken me from you,
although not very far.
I'll be watching through the sunshine
and through the brightest star.
I'll be watching all of you,
From the heavens up above.
So take good care of each other
and carry all my love.
If you're ever wondering
if I'm there, here's where you can start.
Take a look inside yourself
deep within your heart.
I'll always be your mum,
So anytime you need me,
close your eyes I'm back again.
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